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Service without s*xual reward

  • goddesshunyy
  • Apr 8
  • 1 min read

Ive recently encountered a few folks in the community that had previously believed that the concept of non s*xual service was strictly just role-play, and not a genuine type of dynamic. It was hard to wrap their head around someone enthusiastically wanting to provide for me, when they weren't receiving any sort of s*xual reward. I know there are many people that don't understand how this dynamic could be fulfilling, and many more people that inbox me assuming I'll do s*xual favors for them in exchange for money because " thats how it works". So I decided to spell it out as best i can, to help give a more clear view of who I am and what service and intimacy means to me.

It's a pretty simple concept at its core. My subs very genuinely want me to have the things I desire. Period. No strings attatched, no required reward, no expectations. They just want me to be happy. And the fact that they get to contribute to being a part of this wonderfully authentic life that I live, helps them feel needed, useful, and closer to their own authenticity.

And THAT is the core of what turns me on and motivates me to play with them. Knowing that they value me far beyond my body and what pleasure my body could potentially give them.

They value my company, my intellect, my advice, compassion, insight, perspective etc. The physical intimacy is such a small piece of the value I hold when compared to all of those other assets.

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